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Published on January 13, 2006 By Dr Guy In Current Events

Today, another 'teacher' (both pun and sarcastically) was nailed here in VA for the mambo with a minor.  And it was another woman.  While the press is talking about "25-60 years", we will have to see what the real sentence is.  But it brings up an interesting and perplexing question.

Have we (as a society) grown more aware of child molestation (the Kentucky one of this week, plus the numerous ones of the past 2 year), and now see Female on Male sex when the male is a minor, as abuse?  Are we finally turning the corner (in contrast to other Countries like Canada) where the person in control is truly guilty of abuse?

I wonder.

But one thing is undeniable.  While hormonal males are randy and eager, the simple fact that they are not in control is now becoming obvious and the females are being nabbed and prosecuted.  I do not recall so many female teachers in the past, indeed, give history past the last 10 years, I cannot think of a single female teacher, being convicted of a predatory crime with a male.  And yet, since Mary Latourneau, (sp) we have have now been regaled with them daily!  While the reports of the male teachers sink into oblivion.

I am not naive.  I know that the latter is because they know they are marked and must now explore a new venue to practice pedophilia.  In the "bliss but ignorant" old days, men could get away with it with impunity and did.  And then the hammer fell.

Now the hammer is falling on the other side.  And perhaps there are so many now being reported because they are slow to learn the lesson of their male counterparts.

So perhaps, like the Priesthood, the predators are moving on to other occupations.  Which is good and bad.  Good that we can now start trusting another segment of the population that deals with our children daily.  Bad in that we now have to figure out where they are now going.

I hate to say it, but most of the cases that we are now prosecuting here in the old Colonies, are not prosecutable in the northern neighbor.  So maybe they are going there? 

This is not a slam.  This is a heads up.  When you root out the roaches from the house, the are not exterminated.  They do go somewhere.  Never think that just because you squashed a few, that you killed them all.  So Perhaps America is getting rid of ITS problem.  But the problem still exists.  Subvertly or overtly.  It still exists.

But at least we are making it harder for them to flourish.  And not making it legal.

Maybe instead of thinking of your next socialistic benefit, Canada should be thinking of the rats crossing the border.


Comments
on Jan 13, 2006
I think the molested students are learning that they can report the pedophiles and there is more to it than just "getting lucky".
on Jan 13, 2006
Hmmm we don't get as much of that up here in the chilly north. Maybe it's cuz we have to0 many clothes on to bother.

While we do have the men pedophiles like all over, I've not heard of a woman pedophile anywhere near where I live.

The big thing right now is bank robberies. We've got them all over the place and they are successful by the looks of it. I think peopel are getting more desparate.

As a studient of eschotology...or end times, I've been watching closely the expedential rise of sin for years. It's been foretold by Christ himself, and we sholdn't be surprised. Doesn't make it any easier to watch us go down the tubes but knowing that God is ultimately in control and flying the plane I'm in....I guess we just have to trust.....

In the meantime we need to throw these KOOKS in jail and throw away the key.
on Jan 14, 2006

I think the molested students are learning that they can report the pedophiles and there is more to it than just "getting lucky".

Some of it is, but much of it is a jealous classmate after the student brags (and what adolescent male would not?).

on Jan 14, 2006

Hmmm we don't get as much of that up here in the chilly north. Maybe it's cuz we have to0 many clothes on to bother.

I cant really recall many if any from the Northeast.  But the rest of the country is repleat with them, and I would not cal Colorado a warm state.

Still, is it more sin?  Or just more light on the sins?  A lot of this was swept under the rug in previous years.  Now it is being exposed.

on Jan 14, 2006
Still, is it more sin? Or just more light on the sins? A lot of this was swept under the rug in previous years. Now it is being exposed.


I think both. The test is to look around your own community. Any changes in the last 50 years? How about 20 years? Good or bad? Were doors locked back then like today? What makes the difference? I think we've always had evil....but now is expedentially abundant.

When I was growing up our claim to fame here was the absence of murders. We never had them in our state. At least they were so rare no one could remember one. I remember that as a kid everyone talked about how murders never happened here and we were fortunate to live in this state. Now we have at least one murder a day. At least. Big difference..... and I'm not that old.

My grandmother who has seen many many changes in her day is always talking about this. She thinks the second coming is imminent and she's not even a Christian!!!!

on Jan 14, 2006

Now we have at least one murder a day. At least. Big difference..... and I'm not that old.

Actually, I agree with most of what you say, but you said a lot in this statement.  It is telescoping.  We think of our "youth" and our adulthood.  And compare them.  Yet they are not comparable.  For our youth is but really maybe a few years (when we are paying attention) and our adulthood is decaded (at least for me, yours will be). So in the 6 or 7 years as a child that we thought about it, we then compare that to the 20 or more years we spend as an adult. hardly a valid comparison.

on Jan 14, 2006
our adulthood is decaded (at least for me, yours will be


what does this mean? Mine will be? You mean it hasn't been yet?

Yes you're right. I think for the most part as children we are sheltered by our parents and not really involved with the grown up world. But I didn't think I was doing that as you say telescoping...... only explaining I grew up not only never hearing about murders but listening to the adults around me saying how safe it was to live here. So it wasn't coming from my perspective but more from theirs. I took alot of pride in that we were safe here.

When I was 21 and newly married the whole southern part of the state was shocked when a boy was brutally murdered and left along a highway. Today if that happens it's just one in a long line....shocking still but more likely tfor the ones directly involved. I'm afraid tho we've been somewhat desensitized with the sheer numbers.

on Jan 14, 2006
Some of it is, but much of it is a jealous classmate after the student brags (and what adolescent male would not?).


If you don't mind me using you as an example, this attitude is PART of the problem.

We still carry the attitude that an boy being molested by a female adult is something to "brag" about. Would we make the same jokes if it were a boy being molested by a male adult (even if the boy admitted he wanted to do it too)? What if it is a girl being molested by an male adult? Does it change anything if we learn that she "enjoyed" it? Would it change anything if the adult was a woman?

Talk about mixed signals. We teach our kids about their parts and what is an isn't appropriate adult touching, but then if it happens one way it's "something to brag about", but when the same thing happens in a different way it's bad.

No wonder predatory pedophiles are able to convince kids that what they are doing isn't anything wrong.
on Jan 14, 2006

I'm afraid tho we've been somewhat desensitized with the sheer numbers.

When I speak in generalities, I do not mean to imply that any but myself and the generic person is included.  And so in generalities, I spoke.  Not of your childhood, but of mine and the Ovaltine ones we hear about.  My apologies if I insinuated any other.

Bout the quoted statements is half of the problem.  We are getting desensitized.  Perhaps that is part of it.

And if so, that is as disturbing, don't you think?

on Jan 14, 2006

If you don't mind me using you as an example, this attitude is PART of the problem.

No, I do not mind, and you are my teacher.  I readily admit I am ignorant.  Seriously.  I again tried to assume something that is now shown wrong.  I appologize.  It has been many years since I was of that age, and even my son rolls his eyes at me now.

I guess we do forget somethings, and never know others.  IN this case, I thank you for the knowledge you bring.  It detracts nothing from the premise, and adds a lot to the meaning.