Debate, and discuss, just dont Bore me.

That seems like a simple enough question.  I use to think it was open and shut.  Abstinence meant to Abstain.  As in Dont do it.  And while many people have an issue when it is the only form of Birth control taught, very few have a problem with it being taught as A method of Birth control.

Well, that is, except if you live in Maryland!  For it seems that Maryland has another view of Abstinence.  They are currently teaching 3 forms of abstinence:

No intercourse, withdrawal (ejaculation outside of the body) and rhythm (no intercourse during ovulation).

Now, when my parents and aunts and Uncles practiced the third method, they did not proclaim they were abstaining from sex! (Of course I did not really discuss it with them at the time, only later when I was an adult).  But according to the Montgomery County Schools, yep!  There are 3 forms of abstinence!

Needless to say, some parents are up in arms over it!  So the School system is 'rethinking' their teachings.  Rethinking?  This is one case where the baby better go out with the bath water!  On the one hand, you have the only 100% guaranteed method of Birth Control (it has only failed once in the history of mankind).  On the other, you have 2 of the most unreliable methods of birth control there is!

How could anyone, outside of an idiot, call all 3 abstinence?  This is just plain stupid!  And it just makes normal, sane, rational people question educators even the more for their intelligence level!

If you are going to teach Birth control, call it what it is and teach it!  Dont mislabel something so you can sneak it in under the radar screen!  You are lying to a bunch of very impressionable children who will then go to the local tree house (or shed) and say "My teacher says this is OK".  Yea, is that teacher then going to pay for the consequences of their stupidity?  Doubtful!  They are not smart enough to even understand their own stupidity!

You got to wonder if the teachers in that District have an IQ test.  Over a certain level and you are not qualified to teach!


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on Nov 28, 2005
I can't believe a well-informed health teacher would teach that information as correct.

On the other hand...teachers have to be puppets sometimes. The school board says "hey, moron, tell the kids this!" and we have to tell them that stuff. I'm NOT saying it's okay to do that...but it is the reality of things.

This stupid chart comes from our need to organize and group things, and probably a lack of space--couldn't fit another category on there...

Pfffft.
on Nov 28, 2005

Soon we'll have "Zen Abstinence" -- just think really hard about not wanting to get pregant.

Is that BC method number 33?

on Nov 28, 2005
What's ironic is, we live in a day when we are encouraged to use "straight talk" when it comes to talking about sex with our kids. "Call it a penis or vagina, don't use euphamisms", "don't use stories about storks or cabbage patches"... Then when it fits their agenda, they will mince words like "abstinence" "virginity" and even "intercourse".


Heck...I thought it was cool that this mom was sitting down to study this stuff with her son. It didn't say anything about previous years--if there'd been any complaints about the curriculum. That makes me wonder...
on Nov 28, 2005

What's ironic is, we live in a day when we are encouraged to use "straight talk" when it comes to talking about sex with our kids. "Call it a penis or vagina, don't use euphamisms", "don't use stories about storks or cabbage patches"... Then when it fits their agenda, they will mince words like "abstinance" "virginity" and even "intercourse".

Ironic?  hardly.  Just stupidity.  Masked under a different agenda!  The problem is, not even Planned Parenthood (I could be wrong) advocates this crap.

on Nov 28, 2005

On the other hand...teachers have to be puppets sometimes. The school board says "hey, moron, tell the kids this!" and we have to tell them that stuff. I'm NOT saying it's okay to do that...but it is the reality of things.

Having worked for a School division's administration (Installing and administering networks), I think you probably hit the nail on the head.  As one husband of a teacher said "Administrators are just burnt out teachers". Yup!

on Nov 28, 2005
Having worked for a School division's administration (Installing and administering networks), I think you probably hit the nail on the head. As one husband of a teacher said "Administrators are just burnt out teachers". Yup!


We're so busy with standards and graduating kids and lawsuits and crap...who's got time for facts, right?
on Nov 28, 2005

We're so busy with standards and graduating kids and lawsuits and crap...who's got time for facts, right?

GOOD Teachers!  And I know plenty!  Dont ever sell out!  Remember your mission, and fight the jerks!

on Nov 28, 2005
We're so busy with standards and graduating kids and lawsuits and crap...who's got time for facts, right?


... or "education"
on Nov 29, 2005

... or "education"

Unfortunate in many cases.

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