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Published on July 14, 2007 By Dr Guy In Blogging

I saw recently (well about 3 or 4 months ago) where Sir Gideon had done his 2000 blog.  After posting my last one (after a session with my 6 string guitar son), I saw that I was at 1499.  So this is my 1500th.  Dont expect any great revelations or controversies.  This one is for him, as I can think of no one better to talk about right now (ok!  his music selection got to me!).

I have been blessed with 4 children.  2 Girls and 2 boys.  Paltry by my mother's standards as she had 7, so I have 6 siblings.  And we are aging.  My younger sister is a grandmother, 3 times over.  So I am no spring chicken.

My children have all done well.  Smart as they come (and not all conservative), and anyone would be proud of any of them.  As am I.  Proud and happy and sad.  I remember the night my first one came home from the hospital.  I remember when  my last one was born.

My last one.  he is going on 15 now.  Wise beyond his years too!  He is the "artiste".  He is the one that I often quote Sarah Stoeckl with when commenting on her reviews of movies!  They are 2 peas in a pod some times.

He is also the one that loves music more than the others.  The rebellious one.  The only one to run away from home (all of one block).  The only one to put a hole in a door, and bust a window in the car. Yep!  That is him.  And now, the next Quinton Tarantino! (or better).

I have spent the day with him, and just finished diner with him.  He is working on his iPod, so I have a moment to reflect.  on all my children.  All 4 great kids!  And how I miss them.  Miss them?  yea, as he is the last one at home.  The last one that is really a child.  His next in line is 19. 2 in College, one married, and my youngest!

And in a way, the hardest.  To let go.  Many of you here at JU have them and are fighting or fretting the letting go.  I have no magic words.  You have to, but it will not be easy.  I have one left.  My oldest are now older than I when I got married.  Yet they still are my children.  Now I understand my mother a lot better.

One more to go.  And I am not going to let a moment go by.  The difference between one and many, is that one is gone. Many gives you more chances.

My son.  My Great son.  The latest in a line of Greats.  See you later.  I am going to jam with him some more tonight.


Comments
on Jul 14, 2007
I'm 329 behind ya. Enjoy your time with your progeny.
on Jul 14, 2007
I'm 329 behind ya. Enjoy your time with your progeny.


And the music we share!
on Jul 14, 2007
~"My son. My Great son. The latest in a line of Greats. See you later. I am going to jam with him some more tonight."~

Hope you have a fun jam session with your boy. He sounds pretty cool.

on Jul 14, 2007

He sounds pretty cool.

I think of all JU, you would like him best.  Just a hunch, but you and he have a lot in common!  Thanks!

(he is sorting his i-tunes so I can see his repetoire!)

on Jul 14, 2007
I'm enjoying my youngest this summer as he is the only one home. He's going into his senior year at Liberty next fall so I'm really cherishing this summer. He was also, my only one who ran away (at 12). I was so upset and scared and he was only gone about 8 hours. I didn't know whether to kill him or hug him. He was my most rebellious as well. Must be the birth order thing?

Right after David leaves for college.....my grandson comes for a visit for a whole month!!! Haven't seen him since his first month and he'll be 10 months old when he gets here.

You know how it goes..... 15 to 18 is gone in a flash. Enjoy the time and look for those teachable moments.

on Jul 14, 2007
what i think is great is that he sounds like a trouble maker, and you still think so highly of him. i know you will always love him, but to be so in to him after all the crap is really good stuff.
on Jul 16, 2007
Must be the birth order thing?


Must be!

And the time does seem to accelerate once they hit the driving age.
on Jul 16, 2007
what i think is great is that he sounds like a trouble maker, and you still think so highly of him. i know you will always love him, but to be so in to him after all the crap is really good stuff.


I think he was when he was younger as he had 3 older siblings that spoiled him (as well as his parents). But as he has grown, he has gotten into some hobbies that have made him a much better child. Stil has that ornery streak that comes out at times, but for the most part, he is a good kid.
on Aug 03, 2007
I'm just seeing this blog Doc! It's moved on but I had to comment. You sound like such a great dad, I think it is wonderful you spend so much time with your son! Hope your jam session was great!