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Published on March 5, 2007 By Dr Guy In Blogging

For the 4th year now, I had the privilege of working on a worthy fund raiser.  For those not aware, or new to JU, my wife's nephew was killed in an Auto Accident 14 years ago.  It really devastated her sister and brother-in-law.  But instead of letting it ruin their life, and that of their other children, they made something positive about it.  R was about to go to college on a scholarship.  But died before be could attend.  So in his memory, each year on the last Saturday in February, they hold a fund raiser to raise money for scholarships for children in the area in which they live.  This is not a "egg head" type of scholarship.  The recipients just need to show dedication and the ability to work in college.

And each year, the entire family converges on the small town of Brawley California to help with the fund raiser.  Pulling it off is a lot of work, and my small contribution is welcome and needed, but by no means as big as my BIL and SIL.  They work at it for months of the year.  I work at it for a mere 10 days.

When first I started on this endeavor, I was totally clueless.  So I just did whatever was asked.  Now after 4 years, I know the routine well, and since it is our "vacation", and I have the entire time off, I do all the stuff that needs to be done to get ready, and whatever else I am asked to do.  This year was a lot of dirty work, and grunt type stuff.  But I cannot claim altruism.  After all, Brawley is in Imperial Valley California.  For those not familiar with that name or area, just watch the national weather in the summer.  See that band that stretches up from Mexico into Arizona and California marked 110+?

Yea that is us.  But in February, we are not that hot.  The week saw temps in the 70s and 80s (to be fair, they did get a hard freeze back in January). 

So working outside in that weather for someone from the east coast not called Florida, is not really a chore, but a joy.  Even if it is tiring.

The event could not have been better this year.  The day saw sun and temps in the low 80s, and a lot of good music, the food, and a lot of work.  But it went over very well.  I have bruised hands, sore feet and tanned legs to show for it.  But it was fun.  It is kind of a family reunion where we get to see the family that we may not see again for another year, visit with them as we work, and meet my wife's old school mates (and yes flames).

By Sunday, the day after, I was pooped.  But my wife and friend wanted to go to Mexico for Drugs (prescription kind as they are real cheap there), so I tagged along to make sure they were not hit upon by some 80 year old geezer pumped up on Viagra.  I got home that night and crashed.  I really did not recover until Wednesday - a day after returning to work and the DST foofaraw!

I really enjoy the fund raiser as while we do work, it is in February, and warm (it actually sprinkled one day - rare as they only get 3 days of rain a year).  It is for a good cause.  And we actually get to meet some of the recipients as they still live in the valley for the most part.

So that was where I was half of February. And this year, I was so busy, I did not have time to even read my latest Certification books!  What a shame.

Oh, one thing that I really was amazed at.  A lady moved into the valley this year (great retirement place due to the lack of rain and humidity), and asked to help out!  Now that is the kind of neighbor that is going to be remembered long into the future!  I worked with her, but did not get her name as I was doing the grunt stuff (putting up circus tents, etc.) and she was doing the less strenuous stuff (thought I was going to say the girl stuff, eh?).

So anyone wanting a working vacation in a very sunny part of California in the middle of February, let me know!  We can always use more help.  This year I only managed to sell tickets one day due to doing other stuff, but it never hurts to canvass the town!


Comments
on Mar 05, 2007
Sounds like a great way to spend some time. If I can swing it I'd enjoy helping out next year.
on Mar 05, 2007
I know it is off your beaten track, but if you are out that way, welcome!  They dont mind my bare feet, so I dont guess your long hair is going to be a problem either.
on Mar 05, 2007
I think this is wonderful of your wife and her relatives to do. Glad to hear your working vacation went well. Also, do they have a place (or website) where people can just donate money? Just wondering.
on Mar 05, 2007

Also, do they have a place (or website) where people can just donate money? Just wondering.

Not yet, but that is a good idea!  I will talk to my BIL about it!  Thanks for the tip.

on Mar 05, 2007
THat's great, I'm glad things went well! I like that offer btw. I would take you up on it if I ever decide to go over that way for any time! I might tell a friend of mine about it if you don't mind. She's thinking of moving to CA soon to finish school and isn't sure yet whereabouts she's going to live. She was actually in CA sometime last month, I forgot when though. I'll mention that city to her and see if she's ever heard of it!

on Mar 05, 2007

She was actually in CA sometime last month, I forgot when though. I'll mention that city to her and see if she's ever heard of it!

Unless she has gotten off the coast, probably not.  But then when the coast gets nasty - the Valley is still sunny!  Send her our way, we will keep a light on for her.

on Mar 05, 2007
Send her our way, we will keep a light on for her.


She went to LA but didn't like it. I mentioned San Diego to her as a good place to check out. If you know CA well, perhaps you can recommend a city? She's into interior design but works in banking. The former being her goal and she wants to be in CA.
on Mar 06, 2007
California is actually many different states. But San Diego is not much different from LA these days (and indeed you can no longer really see where one stops and the other starts). There is coastal California. That is the one that most people think of when they think of California, and it is somewhat like the East Coast Megalopolis - just without the snow. That pretty much extends from the border to SF.

Then you have Northern California. There has been talk of seceeding from the rest of the state. Northern California has more in common with Idaho and Montana than it does with Coastal california in that it is more sedate and more conservative. And the climate is more like Oregon.

Then there is the Central Valley. That is where all the food is grown and that is big business. It shares the same state with the coast - and little else. It is more like Nebraska or Kansas, but again without the climate.

Finally you have Imperial Valley. That is the desert part of california, where with irrigation, they still grow a lot of food as well (no drop of water wasted). Being so close to Mexico, it also has a very heavy spanish influence, and almost everything there is in 2 languages - and most people there speak both. When they say it never rains in Southern California, they are talking about from east of LA to the border as the average rain fall there is from 10 to less than 3 inches. That part is socially liberal and fiscally conservative. And looks and feels every bit like rural america.

It is a big state that can appeal to many different types of people. But if you dont like LA (I like to visit - but no, I dont want to live there), I would suggest Northern california or one of the Central Valleys. Each has a different flavor and will appeal to most people. Personally, I could get use to no rain 99% of the year real easy.
on Mar 07, 2007
Tell you what Doc, I'll come over and help you out and you come fishing with me in Lake Nasser.
on Mar 07, 2007

Tell you what Doc, I'll come over and help you out and you come fishing with me in Lake Nasser.

Sounds like a plan!