Debate, and discuss, just dont Bore me.

Ok, I know that at the current time, women have a right to an abortion.  But apparently some people think that "right" should be made mandatory if it is their daughter, regardless of her age.

It appears that a woman, 19 years old (by law she can enter into contracts and has all the rights of an adult except drinking) was dating a boy that her parents did not approve of (that just described about half the parents in America I would guess).  She got pregnant.  So they kidnapped her to force an abortion.

They live in Maine, but were taking her to New York. Why?  They had to pass through several states to get there that all allow abortion (it is the Northeast after all), so why not just do it in Maine or New Hampshire or even Vermont?

The innunedo in the article is they had found a 'doctor' in New York that would do it, no questions asked.  But that will probably never be known, and I am sure the 'doctor' in New york will deny any complicity with this couple.

But I have several things to say to these 'parents'.

1. Forced abortion is not tough love.
2. Forcibly taking a 19 year old, regardless of her relation to you, is Kidnapping.
3. Trying to force your daughter to give up a man you think is a mistake will only drive her closer to him.

And 4. Your rights with your daughter ended when she turned 18.  Better get use to the idea that she has her own life now, and if you persist, it will not include you.


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on Sep 19, 2006
"Your rights with your daughter ended when she turned 18."

They never had any rights with their daughter, only duties to her.

Otherwise I agree with you.
on Sep 19, 2006

They must really be a couple of loons.

Or use to always getting their way.  They sound like a Nouveau Riche couple.

on Sep 19, 2006

They never had any rights with their daughter, only duties to her.

Otherwise I agree with you.

Or responsibilties.  A matter of semantics.  Whatever you want to call them, they no longer have them.

on Sep 19, 2006
One thing I've seen is that parents have a hard time in realizing their children are not their propety. I look at my tenure as mom as being a manager of them until they go off on their own. I do not own them. They are not mine to keep but only to manage until they come of age. Our job as a parent is to help them become fully functioning adults by the time they reach 18. Sad to say many are not doing this.

I've seen a similar situation here this past week with a mom and dad that would not let go of their 22 year old daughter. It was quite disturbing to see. She basically had to flee from their home in a rental car she had to sneak out to get. She's never had to pay a bill or own a car or rent an apartment on her own as of yet. Even in her job, her mom worked with her at the local department store. The poor girl could not breathe. How sad.

on Sep 19, 2006

One thing I've seen is that parents have a hard time in realizing their children are not their propety. I look at my tenure as mom as being a manager of them until they go off on their own. I do not own them. They are not mine to keep but only to manage until they come of age. Our job as a parent is to help them become fully functioning adults by the time they reach 18. Sad to say many are not doing this.

That is the best explanation I have seen yet!  Very insightful!

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