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I will never understand them
Published on August 20, 2006 By Dr Guy In Blogging

We all know about Groupies.  Those are the ones that glom onto bands and follow them to every gig.  It is not enough that they hear the band, they have to foillow them.  I have never understood them.  Yea, I like some bands.  Some to the point that I do follow their road tours. From home.  But I dont follow them like the dead heads do.

I can watch them, and listen to them, but I will never understand them.  For some reason, they have an unnatural obsesssion with their group.  And I find that very sad.  Perhaps they are lacking something in their own lives that defies a cure?  Psych has so many diagnoses, that I guess there is one out there for them.

But as I am not a psych, and I care less about those with harmless obsesions, I guess I will never know.

Are the bands somehow re-engergized by them?  I do wonder.  I have heard about the sex part.  But not all groupies are sex fiends.  SO I wonder.  What causes a person to become obsessed with a person, place or thing?  Maybe some out there know?

For me, I will just wonder and opine about it.  As I will never understand it.  When confronted, I would tell them to get a LIFE!  But then I doubt anything this side of a vegetable would ever be a groupie to me!

And in that I am glad.


Comments
on Aug 20, 2006
Always seemed strange to me as well. Cops, firemen, and even truckers have their own groupies after a fashion (and no, I don't mean lot lizards ). Always struck me as a little psychotic.
on Aug 20, 2006

Cops, firemen, and even truckers have their own groupies after a fashion

I have heard of those as well.  What is their motivation?  I dont know.  Seems kind of warped to me.

Psychotic is a good word tho!

on Aug 21, 2006
groupies?? They're still around? I thought that was a thing from the 70's-90's.
on Aug 21, 2006
Plain and simple - obsession, its how far they control or do not control it that matters.

They are searching for something anything. When they find that "something" that sparks in them, they latch onto it and don't let go to the point they traipse around the country following the band or person etc, I suppose it could also be looked at as a form of stalking without the scariness?

So long as they keep themselves under control and do not let it destroy themselves
or the person they are "groupie - ing" let them do it for all the fun it gives them.
Duh - what fun? Really though, each to their own.

Okay now I tried my hand at pyscho analysis or whatever it called - sprouting sh%£%$£$%^!!

You want me to start a groupie club for you Dr Guy ROFL
on Aug 21, 2006

groupies?? They're still around? I thought that was a thing from the 70's-90's

Pish Posh!  From the 50s and 60s even! Ok, that dates me, but yes they are still around.

on Aug 21, 2006

I suppose it could also be looked at as a form of stalking without the scariness?

Oh, I like that!  Can I be your groupie?  Have a cookie!  Very good!