Debate, and discuss, just dont Bore me.
Published on August 8, 2006 By Dr Guy In Blogging

Quote from the Mistress of Mayhem:

Trudy (and the DoN) have never EVER been blacklisted here

But just 7 months ago, she left this snippet on my blog (I saved it turkey!)

Delete my reply!  Fine join my blacklist!

2 in 2 days!  I wonder, should I give her points by reading her slop to actually expose a lie a day?

nah!  Liars are not worth the effort.


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on Aug 08, 2006
This really makes you look petty. Whip has a valid point. Trudy plays like she is all nice but that just isn't so. How could you explain away what she had to say in two separate blogs about Whip? She didn't know what she was talking about in the Geryl... situation and who is she to complain when someone gives us an update of their life. She posts her random daily crap she does everyday.

Other than that she made many presumptions about things she didn't know the whole story on. She assumed that the reason Whip had no internet was because she didn't pay the bill because she smoked it all up. Interesting that that would be the reason. It hurts a lot more than a more probable reason. Simon has been out of work for a while just doesn't have the same sting. Not that either of those reasons were true or the reason she gave in the very article Trudy responded to.

Is she the only one who gets to have a rough life on JU and bitch about it? I don't generally share my problems on JU because I know there is some moron who hangs on to those words waiting for the right time to throw them back at me. Whip could care less because she can dish and dish quite well.

I have been BL'd by Trudy for a few months now. She BL'd me for calling her out on one of her Little Whip articles. Trudy sure does seem obsessed. Next time Whip is missing around here for a couple of days I think we may need to send the cops to Trudy's house so they can find Whip chopped up in the freezer.
on Aug 08, 2006

Stop.  Please stop.

I'm so tired of all this.

on Aug 08, 2006

Trudy sure does seem obsessed. Next time Whip is missing around here for a couple of days I think we may need to send the cops to Trudy's house so they can find Whip chopped up in the freezer.
I have been BL'd by Trudy for a few months now

Wow,   John you're really a piece of work.  I came to the defense of a gal that's half the age of lw,  probably this young woman hasn't had half the life experiences lw has had,  and yet lw lambasted her,  for no reason other than to be mean.  So I wrote exactly what I think of her.  She goes after not only the vunerable ones  such as Lucas, and Gerl, also went after  Manofpeace, Phoneixboy,  Marcie, Dr. Guy, Dharma, and others I don't remember right off the bat.  Wake up John,  take a look around and see who's always the one getting into arguements with. 

 

Yep!  I blacklisted you right AFER you told me you were going to blacklist me!  I'd been trying to explain something to you and you got angry.   I DIDN'T blacklist you for what you're stating.

Whip could care less because she can dish and dish quite well.

She could care less?  Don't you mean "she couldn't care less"???

Simon has been out of work for a while just doesn't have the same sting

The very fact that he's out of work John is good reason to stay off the dope and use the money to pay bills,  including the vet.  Instead her own selfish "wants" came first. 

She didn't know what she was talking about in the Geryl... situation and who is she to complain when someone gives us an update of their life.

John,  it wasn't ME that complained about the Geryl blog,  it was lw that bitched her out and I got angry as Gerl hasn't done anything or said anything ever to lw.  Now do you get it?

on Aug 08, 2006

Reply By: dharmagrlPosted: Tuesday, August 08, 2006
Stop. Please stop.
I'm so tired of all this.

I understand Dharma.  It IS getting old.

on Aug 08, 2006
I see what ya mean Doc,   she made a point of telling me that I was blacklisted,  since she was blk'd  on my blog,  and there wasn't anything I could do about it.  No wonder she hasn't had her past posts reinstated!
on Aug 08, 2006

This really makes you look petty. Whip has a valid point. Trudy plays like she is all nice but that just isn't so. How could you explain away what she had to say in two separate blogs about Whip? She didn't know what she was talking about in the Geryl... situation and who is she to complain when someone gives us an update of their life. She posts her random daily crap she does everyday.

No, she has been sniping at me for the last 6 months on every blog around here.  Do I need to copy and paste for you?  lately, she has started to outright lie.  And attack those who will not abandon me due to her lies.

I am exposing her lies.  That makes me look petty?  Exposing liars makes someone look petty!  Must be a democrat.

Look John, I have tried for the last 6 months to ignore her and her barbs.  But she has written blog after blog with lie after lie.  Where are your comments on her blogs?  About her lies?

Please, if you want to give me advice, live it first.  Dont lecture to me when you hold a double standard.

on Aug 08, 2006

Stop. Please stop.
I'm so tired of all this.

I am sorry Dharma.  I did not start this.  Each of mine is a response to a lie or lies she tells.  She has the power to stop it.  I am just correcting the lies.

on Aug 08, 2006
I am doing my best to stay out of this due to my liking doc and whip very much. I do not know you well enough to like or dislike you trudy ok?

Just remember that all this back and forth trashing is what drove me out of ju for a bit {coupled with ill health}
Maybe it is time for me to find another site to write on, I am getting tired of all the ill will, for Gods sake people it's a fucking cyberspace place., no one really knows most here. None of us have to read anything written by the other, but it is just like bloody car acidents we just have to look!
When you guys see something written by someone you do not like, even a comment in another blog, DON'T READ IT!

lIKE MY COMMENT HERE, NO ONE HAS TO READ THE DAMN THING.
on Aug 08, 2006
When you guys see something written by someone you do not like, even a comment in another blog, DON'T READ IT!


Amen. This is silly, on all accounts. I like both the Doc and Whip. There's a reason I stay away from their blogs a lot of the time though. (And this . . . ahem . . . would be it.)
on Aug 08, 2006

I don't want to get in the middle here but oh well here I go!

Doc I read the "join my blacklist" reply by Whip as a threat.  Not a feat accompli.  I'm just wondering if you tried to reply and saw you were black listed?  I ask because in my experience with Whip she is honest, brutally so, and why would she lie about something so small when she is so honest about all the big stuff?

It doesn't make sense to me, so that is why I'm askin.  

Trudy,

No wonder she hasn't had her past posts reinstated!

I can't remember which article it was in or I'd link it. Anyway, Brad asked LW if she wanted her articles back and she said "nah."  So she can have them anytime she wants.

The very fact that he's out of work John is good reason to stay off the dope and use the money to pay bills, including the vet. Instead her own selfish "wants" came first.
  

Trudy I don't know much about you but I do know you suffer from R/A.  Do you take pain meds for it, ever?  LW has several very painful physical health issues, she could be prescribed more legal narcotics than any one addict could ever use.  With each of these prescriptions she would have a co-pay.  Even if it is only five dollars a prescription, you can see how that'd add up pretty quick.  She has found an alternative to the "wonderful" chemicals with all their wonderful side effects and it is much cheaper.

I don't personally smoke pot.  But if I was in pain (or needed it for psychological reasons..ie, mood stabilizing)and found it relieved that pain better than any other chemical you can rest assured I'd do it.  Legal or not.  And I don't think I am an exception.

I think it is a CRIME in this country that pot can't be used more for medicinal purposes.  But that's another story.

So to say LW should spend the money on bills...well that is deceitful because part of her "bills" without pot is co-pay.  And co-pay is more costly than a bag of pot when you start adding prescription on top of prescription.

In most groups of people there is usually a smaller group that doesn't get along.  I am in that smaller group my fair share.  While I can't speak to you Doc because your thing with LW goes long before I got here...and frankly I don't see it ever being resolved.  Though I wish it was...shesh, I'm not holding my breath.

Trudy on the other hand.  I started reading your blog when I first came to JU.  I thought you were sweet and I liked reading about your life.  I was right there when you flipped out on LW for saying "chin up."  I was just as shocked as she when you lost it...and then later when you said it was a "trigger" for you...I thought, ok..that makes sense, now all is well.  Back to the old Trudy.

But the truth is you never got back to that old Trudy.  You'd write a couple good articles, a bunch of filler, and then you'd freak out a little bit again on someone for something minor.  And each time I wondered, "What just happened?  Why did she respond like that?"

I stopped reading you almost completely when you bowed up in attitude against me on one of your articles.  I can't even remember what it was about but you got really defensive.  I remember thinking, "As many times as I've responded on her articles and she acts like this?  She didn't even ask if I meant offense, just assumed I did."  You never even asked for clarification, just dove right off the deep end.

It was then I realized, what you did to LW, you will do to anyone eventually.  It seems like all it takes is for you to disagree with someone and when they defend their position you go a little postal and the more its discussed the more postal you become.

I don't come to JU for that kind of drama.  So except for maybe three articles, I haven't read you since.  And honestly those were accidents because I wasn't paying attention to the author.  I even responded on one or two before I realized they were yours.  I'm not saying that to hurt your feelings because I believe you post your articles to the forums for people to enjoy, learn, chat, and READ.

You lost a pretty faithful reader with all the hysterics.  I can't imagine I am the only one who dropped you from their "must read" list.

All that to say this.  You've experienced some pretty incredible things.  Write about those Trudy.  That is what you do best. 

on Aug 08, 2006
Stop. Please stop.

I'm so tired of all this.


I know I'm missing something, but I really don't know what or why I should really even care...


We now return you to your normal round of JU political infighting?!? ....

on Aug 08, 2006

I don't come to JU for that kind of drama. So except for maybe three articles, I haven't read you since

You probably wasn't here when it was lw vs:  Phoneix boy, Marcie, Dharma, Dr. Guy, me, Manofpeace, Lucas, any more I don't remember.  So I can't wait to see who's next.  So you've stopped reading me because I wrote an article telling lw it was mean to lambaste Gerl.  That's ok by me.  I don't need people to like or applaud me.  It's nice to meet people that have things in common,  and that can support each other.  I, however,  won't sit by and watch quietly while lw tears into someone who hasn't done anything to her. We've lost bloggers that lw has ripped into.  I say another 4 or 5 months,  it'll be someone else.

Must read list?  Well I don't know about that.  I only generate about 50 hits per article,  and maybe 4-6 comments.  Can't be too many more to lose.

Yes, I've experienced a lot of things in life.  Yes,  I've written about them.  One person "accused" me of only writing about my medical stuff.  So I actually went and counted how many blogs were about my medical history and found that there was approx. 20 articles,  one page.  and 5 pages of regular blogging,  ect.

I think we only see what we want to see.

quote]You lost a pretty faithful reader with all the hysterics.

I think what LW did,  critizing a gal that's never said a word to her, was crap.  Gerl has'nt ever gone ballistic on bloggers and lw just tried to invalidate the gal's problems and feelings.  Then she turns around and writes about her own problems...

Picking on Gerl was mean,  this gal is only half lw's age,  and doesn't have the life experiences that lw has had,  lw could have been empathetic,  since she HAS been through a lot,  yet she chose to berate her.  Mean. 

There's nothing wrong with writing about one's problems,  I guess it's ok as long as you're lw,  right?

Geesh,  I'm really disgusted that no one else stepped up to the plate and defended Gerl.  Hysterics?  I don't think so Tova,   

So to say LW should spend the money on bills...well that is deceitful because part of her "bills" without pot is co-pay. And co-pay is more costly than a bag of pot when you start adding prescription on top of prescription.

As you'll see in the following paragraph,  all of one's meds won't come to more than $20.00 a month.  How in God's name is that deceitful??  

Trudy I don't know much about you but I do know you suffer from R/A. Do you take pain meds for it, ever? LW has several very painful physical health issues, she could be prescribed more legal narcotics than any one addict could ever use. With each of these prescriptions she would have a co-pay. Even if it is only five dollars a prescription, you can see how that'd add up pretty quick. She has found an alternative to the "wonderful" chemicals with all their wonderful side effects and it is much cheaper.

Tova:  Yes,  I have RA,  just like LW,  and I take Methotrexate for it.  It's a medication used to treat cancer.  I also have osteoarthritis,  and gout which is a form of arthritis.  I take 3 800 miligrams of Ibuprofen for  the osteo and allopurinol for gout.  

I also have the same income as LW,  and my co-pay is $1.00 to $3.00 maximum, for each medication.

the most I have to pay a month is $20.00.  That's for ALL of my monthly needs.  BTW,  I take 12-15 meds a day for a multitude of health issues.  I think $20.00 a month,  for all the meds one could ever need,  is far cheaper than marijuanna. 

I don't know what marihunna costs,  however it has to be more expensive than $20.00 a month.

What I think is that people like it when I"m quiet and never rock the boat.  Sometimes the boat has to get rocked,  in order to wake people up.  It isn't nice to berate a blogger that's having issues. 

And for the record,  the last time I let lw comment on my blog,  she called me a bitch,  so I decided I don't need her taking a poop on it.  It IS possible to debate,  even argue without resorting to name calling and belittling people like John did, and I quote him:

"

Next time Whip is missing around here for a couple of days I think we may need to send the cops to Trudy's house so they can find Whip chopped up in the freezer."

That's the kind of stuff that makes this community toxic. 

That's really some pathetic way to talk to people.

on Aug 08, 2006

I do not know you well enough to like or dislike you trudy ok?

That's fair MM,  I"m fine with it.

on Aug 09, 2006
The mystery of the ages is how someone like Moderateman, who acts like the mouthpiece of world Jewery and Israel in particular, can continue to kiss the anti semitic asses of whip and her so called husband.... can anyone explain that?
on Aug 09, 2006

I'm just wondering if you tried to reply and saw you were black listed?

Yes I did.

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