Growing up, I always knew about Psycho. My mother was so traumatized by it.  I did not see it unti llater in life, but one thing I did know=.  Dont come into the bathroom when my mother was taking a shower!

I eventually did see it and it was a great movie!  More so that it was in black and white and there has been nothing close since then, nor given the reliance on special effects, I suspect there will be any like it in the future.  It is a classic.

I married a woman who was nothing like my mother.  And she hated my mother.  But then many of us did.  What I did not know was she did not love me.  Just a manipulative bitch.  This is not an editorial or an assumption.  It is a fact as she did verify in a moment of honesty (which I am sure she regrets and never will she admit to our children).

But yes, that was past tense.  I wasted many years with that person. 10 years longer than I should have as I tried, and tried and tried.  Before I finally gave up.

After a very nasty divorce (on her part), I started over.  After 4 years, I met and fell in love with a women that is her antithesis.  She is so in your face, and up on me that sometimes it drives me to emotions!  But then always to appologize, as I know she has gotten the best of me.

But one thing she did early and consistantly.  SHe replaced all the shower curtians in the house with clear ones.  At first I did not attach anything to it.  Ok, I like watching her shower, and since I got the Lasik, I dont mind her watching me.  hey!  We can be kinky too!

But today, I made a joke as she was about to shower.  "ok, so you saw Psycho too, eh?"

Yep!  She said that was the reason!  My wife is my mother! (no, but I did marry, finally, one like her!).

Yes, I am here to tell you that no matter how far you run, you men are going to find your mother!

What a revolting predicament!

But I love her so.