Debate, and discuss, just dont Bore me.
Published on August 23, 2006 By Dr Guy In Home & Family

Yea, I guess my Neighborhood is.  In it, I know my neighbors.  Why?  We are not afraid to stand outside and do yardwork and talk. 

In it, I see people walking down the road.  And a man on a bicycle riding by with a child on the back, and yelling "Hi Mom" to the walking lady.  I see a father strolling his daughter.  I see many people walking their dogs and as they pass, saying Hi.  I suspect their dogs are not from this street, but from others around here.  It is (dare I say as I dont know) typical suburbia.  The streets are not straight throughs.  Unless you live here or on a side one, you are not going to use this as a cut through.

So people do not mind jogging, walking, walking dogs or bicycling on the street.  While we have a third mile of straight street, the only ones drag racing are the kids go karting.  The rest of us, we take it easy.  Knowing that the kids are chasing balls and some even skateboarding in the streets.

I look and read at the rest of the USA and wonder.  Are we immune?  Are we special?  Perhaps.  But I like my neighbors, the Koreans, the Japanese, the Moroccans, the Blacks, the Peruvians, and the Other Hispanics.  We exist together. Because there is no animosity or hatred here.  We exist together because we have a common interest.  Our neighborhood.

And yet I read where most dont know their neighbors.  And that is a real shame.  When my wife and I go out out town, they care for our cats.  When they have a problem, like my retired neighbor, we watch their house and take care of the mail.

We had a HS quarterback in the neighborhood just 2 years ago!  Starting on the school team!  (His mother still lives here, but jocks!) Now we have an engineer in the neighborhood!  Soon to be!  He is in the program at College.  And we have an Auto Mechanic in the neighborhood.  That has saved my wife's and my butt on a couple of occassions.

Neighbors.  They are not just for decoration any more either.  I am glad for mine.


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on Aug 23, 2006
Sounds like such a nice place to live in. Our neighborhood isn't bad, and I do know that some neighbors are friendly with each other.

As far as me not getting to know them, I guess it has alot to do with my personality...I've always keep to myself. Maybe I should try a little harder to change that.
on Aug 23, 2006

I think our neighborhood is pretty good too.  Directly across I've got the Sheriff's dispatcher,  have a farmer ( retired) with his wife of many decades,  a couple down the hall that are nice even though they're nosey,  and most I don't know yet are seniors that are friendly.

It's just that one family across the street that's been creating chaos since they moved in.

Your neighborhood sounds like heaven!  We've got the skateboarders and bicyle gang,  and sadly the drivers drive too fast for all the children that abound around here.

How did you find such a great place to live?

on Aug 23, 2006

As far as me not getting to know them, I guess it has alot to do with my personality...I've always keep to myself. Maybe I should try a little harder to change that.

Actually, I am an introvert as well.  But when they walk by and say HI,  Talk to you about your team, or your cats (yes, we are the cat people!), you cant help but get to know them.

Plus, Isabel left us with a freezer full of food, no power, and a neighbor with 2 teens and power!  So I gave them all we had.  A week later, one teen returned the ice chest with a burb and a smile!  Now who could not like them?

on Aug 23, 2006

It's just that one family across the street that's been creating chaos since they moved in

We have not had that kind (and I know who you refer to).  We do have a half way house for girls (girls, not women).  But they are very well behaved!  Their parents are another thing (just rude, not mean).

It really is.  I blogged about a year ago (probably a lot longer) that there was a Bike that one neighbor had forgotten to take when they moved.  It stayed there until the new people moved in.  About a month!

I am lucky.  I know that!  My friend, also in this city, was not.  I guess it is location.  But yea, Call us the Cleavers! !

on Aug 23, 2006
does sound pretty blissful doc. The neighborhood I grew up in was really active. We lived in a culdesac and all the kids would gather in the middle to play games and such. Everyone knew everyone elses kids so for the most part we stayed out of trouble and such. My next door neighbor was the superintendent of the school district and he and his wife were always planning block parties and such.

Good stuff

-sus
on Aug 23, 2006
But yea, Call us the Cleavers! !


Doc - should we call you Ward, Walley, or Theodore?

on Aug 23, 2006
Doc - should we call you Ward, Walley, or Theodore?


HE'S THE BEAV! OF COURSE HE'S THE BEAV!
on Aug 23, 2006
HE'S THE BEAV! OF COURSE HE'S THE BEAV!


yea - he is the Beav
on Aug 24, 2006
Definitely nice that you live in an area with neighbors you know, can relate to, and communicate with.

I admit to being largely the hermit that my wife calls me. I know little about my neighbors, their families, and the goings on in their lives. I'm not trying to be anti-social, just somewhat private and not really that interested in getting out and gossipin' with everyone.
on Aug 24, 2006

My next door neighbor was the superintendent of the school district and he and his wife were always planning block parties and such.

Now that is my kind of Superintendent!

on Aug 24, 2006

Doc - should we call you Ward, Walley, or Theodore?

I guess I am too old for Wally or Theodore, so I must be Warrd.

on Aug 24, 2006

HE'S THE BEAV! OF COURSE HE'S THE BEAV!

Ah gee, Wally, you found me out.

on Aug 24, 2006

I'm not trying to be anti-social, just somewhat private and not really that interested in getting out and gossipin' with everyone.

We dont really gossip, or at least I dont.  We talk about the kids a lot, and like I mentioned, Sports, work, the Schools (especially the schools).  But we dont talk about the private lives of others, other than who is going to what college.

on Aug 24, 2006
I have been in my neighbourhood for 6 months now, the neighbours only speak to me when they want something from me - such as access to the wall on my side etc, being Cornwall (me not Cornish ) am I surprised? NO!

I do remember as a kid though in a far way neighbourhood back in the distant years all the neighbours spoke with one another.
on Aug 24, 2006

I do remember as a kid though in a far way neighbourhood back in the distant years all the neighbours spoke with one another.

Before AC became affordable, so everyone spent the evenings on porches trying to escape the heat of the house.

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